What new twin parents really need (and don't need)

Managing money when you’re expecting more than one baby

Hearing the words ‘it’s twins’ or ‘there’s more than one’ can be incredible and overwhelming all at once. When you add the rising cost of living into the mix, it is completely normal to worry about how you will afford everything your babies need.

You might already be doing the maths in your head. Two car seats, double the nappies, more clothes, two cots. It can quickly start to feel like an endless list. Our ‘Affording twins, triplets and more’ Factsheet (LINK) is here to help you take a breath and work out what is truly essential, what can wait and where you can save money without compromising on safety.

Rather than a long list of things you must buy, the guide walks you through real-life choices parents make every day. It is about putting you back in control, so you can focus your budget where it matters most and feel confident saying no to the extras.

Choosing the baby essentials that matter most

Some things really are non-negotiable. You will need a car seat for each baby before you can leave hospital and these are safest bought new so you know their full history. Safe sleep spaces are also key, whether you choose cots, moses baskets or next-to-me cribs. It is recommended you buy brand new mattresses for your babies even if the rest of the item is second hand.

Then there are the everyday basics. Clothes, blankets, cot sheets, muslins, nappies and wipes can feel like small purchases but soon add up. The guide suggests how many items you might realistically need in those early months and shares tips for stretching your budget, like asking friends and family to buy nappies instead of outfits or picking up a packet of wipes each week during pregnancy to spread the cost.

Feeding is another big area. Even if you are planning to breastfeed, having some bottles and a simple way to sterilise them can be reassuring.

Getting savvy with second hand, baby banks and borrowing

The good news is that you really do not have to buy everything new. Many families of twins, triplets or more save hundreds of pounds by embracing pre-loved items. Our Factsheet (LINK) highlights which bits of kit are ideal to borrow or buy second hand, including prams, baby baths, bouncy chairs, baby monitors and changing bags. It also reassures you about what can safely be shared between your babies, such as one play mat or one baby bath.

If your budget is tight, baby banks can be a lifeline. You can find local schemes offering donated clothes and equipment to families who need them, alongside friendly support.Stripey Stork),Little Village HQ and Baby Basics are good starting points if you want to see what is available near you.

There is also practical guidance on reusable nappies and how some councils offer a real nappy incentive voucher scheme, which can reduce costs in the longer term. Find out if your local area is part of this.

You might find local clubs LINK or online communities LINK helpful places to ask other parents questions about what equipment they got and what worked for them - they’ll be able to give practical advice based on real experience.