Twins Trust supports family after mum's mental health crisis

Eunice had long dreamed of becoming a mother, and after more than 20 years of trying, she and her husband Babs were overjoyed to finally welcome twins, David and Faith, into the world.

However, what should have been a blissful time for the couple quickly turned into an unimaginable ordeal. Just days after the twins' birth, Eunice suffered a pulmonary embolism and a cardiac arrest. Her heart stopped for nearly 10 minutes before she was rushed to a specialist hospital, placed on life support, and induced into a coma.

As Eunice fought for her life, her husband Babs found himself suddenly as the primary caregiver for their newborn twins. With both parents overwhelmed by the sudden turn of events, the family needed support in ways they had never anticipated.

The importance of a strong support network

During the first days and weeks, Babs relied on the support of family, friends, and neighbours to help care for the twins. This strong network of loved ones helped the family navigate the unimaginable and ensured that David and Faith were well looked after. However, as Babs had to return to work, the family needed additional assistance.

This is where Twins Trust stepped in, offering vital support during a time of overwhelming uncertainty. The charity provided a volunteer to visit the family and gave them a free membership, which offered access to essential resources and discounts on items needed to care for twins. This support allowed Babs to focus on his work and relieved some of the pressures Eunice and the family were facing.

Finding strength in volunteers

When Eunice finally returned home after her time in the hospital, her recovery was far from simple. Although she was supported by carers, she still needed help with daily tasks, especially while Babs was at work. That's when Gemma from Twins Trust, became an invaluable part of their lives.

Eunice expressed how much Gemma’s support meant to her during this challenging time. Gemma’s phone calls were a source of comfort when Eunice felt overwhelmed and uncertain. "She would just call, like an angel, and sparkle the day for me," Eunice shared. The emotional support Gemma provided was just as important as the physical help she gave, allowing Eunice to regain confidence and feel less isolated during her recovery.

In addition to Gemma, Twins Trust volunteer Rosie visited the family monthly for four months. Rosie’s assistance with feeding, nappy changes, and general care allowed Eunice to gradually regain her confidence in caring for the twins. The babies quickly warmed to Rosie, and Eunice wished that her visits could have continued longer. "Rosie was extremely helpful and kind. Her support was greatly appreciated," Eunice said.

A lifeline of support

Throughout this challenging time, Eunice and Babs remained deeply grateful for the support they received from Twins Trust. The charity’s volunteers, resources, and membership offered essential relief during a time that could have easily overwhelmed them. Eunice reflected on how much the support meant to her and her family: "We are so grateful to Twins Trust for being there for us at our time of need."

Eunice’s story is a testament to the power of community and the difference that the right support at the right time can make. It highlights the importance of both practical and emotional help, especially during a time of crisis. The care and kindness shown by Twins Trust’s volunteers not only helped Eunice and Babs navigate their immediate challenges but also provided long-lasting support as they adjusted to life with their newborn twins. Through this experience, the family learned the profound impact that compassion and a strong support network can have when life takes an unexpected turn.